ok so i didn't update the next day but hey its close enough! lol. anyway, on to what that friend did to screw up my life. ok first of all, we worked together when i had a job which was ok i liked taking her to and from work with me it kept me awake which is what i needed with the fact that i worked 3rd shift. anyway, one day we came home from work and ALL HER STUFF IS OUTSIDE OF HER APARTMENT IN TRASH BAGS! she lived with her "best friend", her "best friend's husband & 2 kids. well she called me and told me that she got kicked out. it was freezing so i picked her up and threw all her stuff in the car. anyway, my dad hated her but yet he didn't really know her. he kept saying she can't stay here. but she had no where else to go. how cruel my dad was acting was pissin me off so i told him we will only be here for a few more weeks cause we are getting a apartment together closer to work. but we never did that. b/c she screwed up the friendship. she was all the time going to see a friend of hers and SHE decided when I pick her up. i would go try to pick her up and she wouldn't be ready yet. she almost made me late for work 2 times. she TOLD a friend of hers that I COULD pick him up and take him to the new years party we were going to. he lives out of town so that pissed me off. she should have asked me before telling him that we could pick him up. the thing that pissed me off the most is that she kept on telling me not to date phil but yet i shouldn't listen my parents as much its my life i should do what i want to do. i should listen to her but not my parents????? I DON'T THINK SO! anyway, b/c of the fact that she didn't want me dating phil she sent him a message on myspace saying a bunch of bullshit to him. it pissed him off and it also pissed off allie (his neice and one of my good friends). so she sent me a nasty message and i had no clue what was going on so i told her that. she didn't believe me. but then june also got a message from this bitch. (june is allie's mom and phil's sister). after that i said enough is enough i have to get things straightened out with allie and june. i really didn't know phil so i didnt care if things got straightened out with him or not. so me, my dad, and my dad's gf all went to straighten things out. but a couple days later me and phil met in person and on good circumstances and we've been together ever since. and that bitch is now out of my life!